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r arms made in front of her stomach. Finally, she quieted. T “OK, OK,” she began, as she unraveled the whole story. Two months earlier she began dating a guy whom she’d eyed for many months. He was large, athletic, handsome and kind. They began dating and early in the relationship he’d pushed her for sex. She told him, she said, that she didn’t want to have sex. She wanted to be a virgin when she got married. Besides, she said, there were lots of diseases and she just didn’t want any. At first he complied, but after several weeks, began pushing her for oral sex. This was a compromise, he convinced her. Abigail gave in. “I hated it,” she told me. “I thought it was gross, but then I told myself it was better than losing him. And besides, I knew I wouldn’t get pregnant or any diseases. But now, Dr. Meeker, I just hurt so bad.” I learned that Abigail contracted one of the worst cases of genital herpes I had ever seen. Her pain was physical and I could help that. But I couldn’t kill the herpes—it would return for the rest of her life. After Abigail learned of her herpes, she left my office with a few packets of pills to deaden the sting of the disease. But that wasn’t the worst part. She told her boyfriend that he had given her herpes, and then he told (what felt to her) the entire world. Her peers made fun of her. His friends dubbed her “Miss Herpes” and even her close friends stayed away from the infected girl. After six months of rejection, Abigail went home after school one day and in the quiet of her bathroom swallowed a bottle of Tylenol.
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try to kill herself afterward—even though she kept her virginity? The reasons are complex and the answers not for the weak-hearted. Abigail is a child victim of a toxic sexual culture, which you and I have created. We—those who gave momentum to the sexual revolution of the 70’s—have unleashed a horror of physical, emotional and spiritual pains upon our children. And we must do something about it. Abigail’s problem is our problem because she is a child with incomplete cognitive maturity and cannot fix the ills of such great magnitude. We must do it for her.
*Physical Fallout of the Sexual Revolution* Several years ago, after one too many Abigails in my office, I turned to the medical literature to determine if my experience was unique. I naively hoped that I had a skewed medical practice. Perhaps I had an unusual affinity for teens with depression and STD’s. This is what I uncovered. According to the Centers for Disease Control, the U.S. is experiencing an epidemic of STD’s amongst our youth—the likes of which we have never before seen. In 1960, the U.S. contended with gonorrhea and syphilis alone. A quick injection of penicillin in the buttocks, and a patient was on his way. By 2000, we had approximately 30 STD’s. According to the New England Journal of Medicine, one in five people over 12 years old tests positive for genital herpes. And in 2002, Sexually Transmitted Diseases Journal stated in an article that if we don’t dramatically change course, 39 percent of all men and 49 percent of all women in the U.S. would have genital herpes by 2025. Now, I am not an alarmist by nature. Colleagues for embracing a Polly-Annish enthusiasm for teens have even occasionally chided me. But friends, we have a very, very serious problem on our hands. Amongst our youth, we have not one, but numerous strains of the Humanpapilloma virus, which causes 97 percent of all cervical cancer. And did you know that the number of women who die from cervical cancer in the U.S. annually rivals the number of women who die from AIDs? Ah, but, we always have the condom, you say to yourself. This past May, I testified before a Congressional committee as Dr. Julie Gerberding, head of the CDC, released her report on prevention of HPV infections in women. Much to the dismay of many on the committee, Dr. Gerberding reported that condoms could no longer be considered the primary means of prevention. This is due to the fact that HPV, like other viral infections (i.e., Herpes type 1 and Herpes type 2), are transmitted from skin-toskin.
*The Emotional Toll* The literature regarding the cause and effect of sexual activity and depression among teens is slim. Research from the medical literature clearly confirms an association between sex and depression in teens. But which comes first—depression or sexual activity? Over 20 years I’ve seen thousands of teens, and I rarely see a sexually active teen girl or boy who doesn’t struggle at some point with low self-esteem, regret, confusion or mild to severe depression. Why would this be? While the literature may not dissect the problem, let us apply sound psychological principles. Consider the losses incurred from sexual activity during the teen years.
*Loss of Control* Internalizing parental authority and defining an order and discipline to one’s world is crucial to healthy psychological maturity during the teen years. We emphatically teach teens to take control of their athletic and academic endeavors, that they have the capacity to avoid drugs and alcohol and to discipline their speech and behavior towards others. Yet when it comes to sexual activity, the adult community at large sends a loud message—“you cannot—nor should you have to—pull the reigns in on your sexual activity. Sexual impulses are too strong for you to effectively control.” Teens internalize the belief that all in their world can be controlled, but remain confused—even frightened—about sexual activity. It becomes this behavior, which is inevitable, powerful, and untamable. And it must be had in order to feel significant, adult-like or desirable. So a young girl gives it a try. Usually, sex brings neither pleasure, comfort nor lasting feelings of acceptance. Rather, it leaves her with a pile of losses to be grieved. For several moments, she was not in control—he was—or they were. Not multiple partners, perhaps, bw Erotica Dating Beautiful uv k k Mobile White Sex